Friday, November 22, 2013

Bitch’n Friday: Survival Guide To Thanksgiving



            Ok, I know I didn’t update Monday but I will have a very long explanation this coming Monday.  Today I wanted to give you my tips for surviving Thanksgiving with your relatives.  Lucky for me, this year it will just be my mom and I.  For others I know are not so lucky, you may have that annoying Aunt asking questions about your love life, or an asshole grandparent nagging you about your weight.  So here are my quick tips on getting threw your turkey day.

            1) Arrive an hour before dinner.
This is to ensure that side conversations are kept minimal and you are not standing around bored.  You figure in after walking threw and greeting everyone you have 45 minutes to kill before dinner.  During that wait you can grab a drink and find the one person in the room that won’t drive you up the wall.

            2) Bring alcohol 
I’m not talking about wine or beer (which wine would be acceptable in this setting but a bit over done).   I’m talking about the hard stuff.  Bring a bottle of Bourbon or Brandy or Whisky.  Hell, bring all three if your relatives are that bad.   Bonuses points for saying that this is a gift to the host or hostess.

            3) Ask to help the host
Helping out the host cuts down on there time from setting the table or cooking the sides.  By helping them out if someone tries to talk to you that you don’t like, you tell them you are busy helping the host.  Staying busy and look like you are in a hurry will make the other guest back off and give you space.

            4) Be the runner
The runner is the golden ticket out the door.  Wither it be something minor like getting more butter for roll, be all over that shit.  Just be sure not to get a tag along while you go out.

            5) Avoiding prodding questions
This is bound to happen no matter what you do. You are sitting at the table eating your meal when a cousin asks you about your love life, work, religion, and or politics.  The best way around this is to have a short honest response.  This might shock them from not asking any more question or they will probe more.  If they do the latter remind them that it is quite rude to be asking hot button issues (in relation to religion, politics, and sex) in a neutral setting. Or you can simply state that it is your decision and it fits your life style. All else fails strike up a conversation with someone else and ignore that bitch for the rest of the night.

            6) Escape plan
Prior to arriving to the home, you should call the host and tell them you can only stay until a certain time.  This is a guarantied out with out the guilt.  You should also stay for desert but if your family is driving you up the wall stage a fake call from work.  Have you phone on silent and pretend the buzzer went off. Excuses yourself from the table or conversation to head to the bathroom.  Take a few minutes and breath, come back out saying there is an emergency and they need you at work right now.  This is a dick move and should only be used if you are considering murdering your family that evening.

            There you have it, my easy in out surviving the thanksgiving meal.  I will have a blog post on Monday and a party Wednesday next week as well.  Hope all you lovely folks are enjoying your new PS4 and Xbox Ones this weekend.  Me, I will be waiting around for my Xbox One to show up at my door step some time this afternoon.

See you on the other side.

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